First dates are exciting–they’re filled with potential and the possibility of something meaningful. But as thrilling as they are, they can also come with a bit of pressure. What should you wear? What should you say? And yes–what should you bring?
While you don’t want to overdo it, showing up prepared (and just a little thoughtful) can make a big difference. Here’s a helpful guide to what to bring on a first date–covering the essentials, the little touches that show care–and why one classic gesture is still a winner.
A THOUGHTFUL MINDSET
It’s not something you can carry in your hands, but your attitude is the most important thing you can bring. Be open, be kind, and most of all, be yourself. Approach the date as a chance to learn about someone, not to impress them with a resume of your accomplishments.
DATE ESSENTIALS
The date’s location will determine a lot of what you should bring. Regardless of where you’re going, these essentials can help you feel comfortable, look prepared, and avoid awkward moments. Here are a few things to always have with you on your first date–or any date.
Breath mints or gum - A must! Nothing ruins chemistry like bad breath.
A lightweight jacket - Even if the weather seems fine, nights can get chilly. Offering your jacket is a subtle, classic way to show you care.
Hand sanitizer or wipes - Clean hands are always a good idea, especially if you’re grabbing food or touching shared surfaces. Something to think about when you want to hold hands.
Handkerchief - Gentlemen, a handkerchief provides a touch of old-world charm and practical readiness, great for a chivalrous offer or addressing an unexpected mess.
Lip Balm - Dry lips are never attractive! Prevent dryness and chapping to make your smile more appealing and any close-up interactions (like talking or a potential kiss) much more pleasant.
A CLASSIC GIFT: FLOWERS
Should you bring flowers on a first date? There’s something undeniably charming about giving flowers. It’s romantic without being over-the-top, and it shows you put some thought into the moment.
Tips for first date flowers:
- A single flower like a rose, tulip, or sunflower is elegant and simple.
- Small bouquets of seasonal blooms can be a sweet surprise.
- Avoid large, extravagant arrangements or strong-smelling flowers–keep it light and tasteful.
If you’re worried it might feel outdated, think of it this way: small, romantic gestures have become rare, and that’s what makes them stand out.
ENGAGING CONVERSATION AND A CURIOUS MIND
You don’t need flashcards or rehearsed jokes, but having a few engaging topics in mind can help if there’s a lull. Think hobbies, travel, music, or even funny dating stories. Avoid heavy or divisive topics on the first date. Keep things light, positive, and focused on getting to know each other. Ask open-ended questions like:
"What’s something you’ve always wanted to try?"
"What’s your go-to comfort movie or book?"
"What’s your dream travel destination?"
CONFIDENCE AND A GENUINE SMILE
Confidence isn’t about boasting or showing off. It’s about being comfortable in your own skin. One of the most attractive qualities you can bring on a date is being present and self-assured. A warm, genuine smile and good eye contact can often say more than words.
If you’re nervous, that’s okay–so is your date, most likely. Let your natural charm shine through.
First dates are not about being perfect; they’re about creating a spark. Bringing something thoughtful, like flowers, adds a layer of charm and old-school romance that many still appreciate. Pair that with a warm attitude, good conversation, and a little preparation, and you’ll be well on your way to making a memorable impression.
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